Today I officially packed for the first time as a guy. (In my twenties I sometimes packed when I went to bars.) I finally put together an STP and harness I can wear comfortably and discretely, and wore it to work. I cannot believe how empowering and affirming it is to have a package between my legs. It is also amazing how natural it feels and how I finally feel complete. I still need to practice with the STP before I attempt to use it for real, but I’m getting better every day.